How to get love back
Sometimes we find love missing in our life.Life has same routine. Lets take break from this routine and plan some suprises to get love back..Surprise the word itself sounds so exciting. The moment we here that someone has got a surprise we start guessing what it could be. Be it a child or an adult everyone loves surprises. And when they are from a partner, it can make the sun shine and the birds sing for the most serious-minded people among us. So here are ten romantic ideas to surprise your partner with and spice up your relationship.
- Write a romantic letter.
In these times of face book and twitter, do few thing completely against the grain like writing out a love letter for your partner in your own hand. Try using a perfumed paper if you have one and sign off with a lipstick kiss. For all you guys rolling your eyes at the lipstick impression, dress up your epistle instead with a satin ribbon. Lastly leave it the surprise where least expected like in the car dashboard or pinned on his/her pillow.
- Plan a workday lunch.
Choose a day when you know your partner does not have anything important work. Then surprise him or her by appearing at the workplace and offering to treat your partner for lunch. Your partner will not only be pleased at all the envious glances from co-workers but glad to have such a romantic diversion on a mundane workday.
- Dedicate a song to your partner.
Dedicate a song to your partner on his/her favourite radio station. This works wonders for music-lovers and especially if you know few of your partner’s favourite numbers. Remember the catch is to make sure that the radio is on so that your partner does not miss the dedication. It is easy to do this if you both are at home but if your loved one is at work, you could take the help of a colleague to ensure that the radio is playing the right station.
- Climb into the bath with your partner.
Climb into the bath with your partner and he/she is sure to be thrilled at the romantic bath. Bring along a divine-smelling body wash and offer to give your partner a nice scrub. The best part about this surprise is that you can either let it end with a relaxing soak and a refreshing or take it further to an intimate encounter. Any way, it is sure to make your partner’s day.
- Make gift coupons.
Try a little thought into this one and come up with intimate ideas that you know your partner will like. A sensual massage for your woman for instance complete with aromatic oils, flickering candles and soft music. Or perhaps a role playing session for a husband who has a thing for French maids. Make a great show of presenting the coupons to your partner and warn them that if not redeemed soon enough, the offer may expire.
- Buy Something special for your partner.
Surprise him with an expensive gift like a piece of joyously or a custom-made men’s accessory, can pleasantly surprise your partner, especially at a time when no birthdays or anniversaries are round the corner. Remember not all of them need make a dent in your pocket. You could look for something with a special significance like the perfume or cologne that your partner wore the first time you went on a date. A gift like this would not necessarily empty your bank account but work equally to surprise your partner with romantic memories of the past.
- Plan a week end vacation.
If you know thats there a week end you can spend together and are familiar with your partner’s itinerary, secretly arrange for a your weekend getaway and then surprise him/her with the tickets. This would be more difficult to plan if you have kids but consider the time and effort as a kind of investment into the most precious thing you have together – your marriage. Use the time away to reconnect with each other and avoid having discussions on kids, finances or other issues which are likely to trigger your stress.
- Buy yourself something sexy to wear.
Buy yourself something sexy to wear and model it for your partner. While women may not need any more than on lacy lingerie, it may not be something that men do very often for their partners. Try black silk pyjamas or other exotic fabrics like satin. Few women have been known to find even boxer briefs a huge turn on in their men. So guys go ahead, dress yourself and then lap up the look of sheer wonder in your woman’s eyes and the promise of so many better things to follow. Just one word of caution though, try and avoid digging into your wife or girlfriend’s closet for lacy or frilly ideas – you want your partner to be romantically surprised not struck down with horror.
- Indulge your partner’s taste buds.
Plan a dinner date around wherever your partner’s culinary fancies lie. Food is a significant source of sensual pleasure. Consider what your partner loves best, a simple home-cooked meal with a romantic ambience or exploring new tastes in exotic cuisine. It could be anything as simple as a home-made pizza with the pepperoni laid out to read a romantic phrase like “you are the one for me”. Or it could be a special dinner at a fancy restaurant with live bands. The whole idea is to surprise your partner with an invitation to a memorable evening with you. Remember to be careful to choose a day when you know your loved one does not have an important conference or a client-meeting lined up after work.
- Finally Plant a kiss full on your partners’ lips
When yor partner is in mid of conversation and especially if the conversation is leading up to an argument. Your partner will be too surprised by the kiss to remember what he or she was saying. And a good thing too, since then you both can go back to doing what you like best – loving one another.